tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7567930666988349313.post843987444319868030..comments2023-11-03T03:04:09.037-07:00Comments on dad4justice: I just want a chance to see my son's girlsdad4justicehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03399954680761271127noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7567930666988349313.post-42925730660784067092007-10-06T21:58:00.000-07:002007-10-06T21:58:00.000-07:00You make some interesting points. Thanks for sett...You make some interesting points. Thanks for setting out your views. I'll reflect on them and come back to you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7567930666988349313.post-15400297810984131142007-10-06T20:53:00.000-07:002007-10-06T20:53:00.000-07:00Right fair question ; Now as soon as a dv incident...Right fair question ; <BR/><BR/>Now as soon as a dv incident is reported the man is assumed the perpetrator of all the problems . There are already women victim and children support mechanisms in place to assist the often volatile situation . The man is taken by police . This is where I come . I find out the truthful family composition and interactions and all the triggers that caused the situation . I have written report ready to put in front of judge within 21 days . No problem . No lawyers and no psychologists !!<BR/> The money made from professionals in my case since 2001 must be staggering . Tax payer funded - millions ?? !!<BR/><BR/>My idea is to co -ordinate with present authorities and concentrating on the father accepting his moral obligation to his family as a responsible dad to his children . Early intervention .<BR/>No false allegations . No lies that just keep running in the litigation world of the family court adversarial system where whoever has got the most money usually wins . Kids are not trophies !!<BR/><BR/>The system throw these guys in jail so they are history . These guys have no chance to express the other side of the story . A meeting of the minds asap after the incident would benefit society enormously .<BR/><BR/>When these guys get out their families are gone and they ain't too much to lose , so they re offend . The support mechanisms for these guys is nil . <BR/><BR/>My idea would save the country millions . Think early intervention that is not tied up in a political ideology !! Think no stress for kids .Keep it simple - no bullshit or tricky business . Kids deserve truth , honesty , integrity , grace and love .dad4justicehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03399954680761271127noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7567930666988349313.post-91293945290165522532007-10-06T20:27:00.000-07:002007-10-06T20:27:00.000-07:00D4J:I don't necessarily agree with the the way you...D4J:<BR/><BR/>I don't necessarily agree with the the way you express yourself - seriosuly, words like "feminarcissist" really don't help you to get the message across. But we both agree that the system shouldn't place children with mothers (or fathers) who are unsuitable parents.<BR/><BR/>The problem is: how do you devise a system that fairly gets evidence before the court, when the family court is a classic "he says, she says" scenario? What would you have the judge do?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7567930666988349313.post-64959034845692601002007-10-06T11:01:00.000-07:002007-10-06T11:01:00.000-07:00Peak the cut and paste queen oil , always looking ...Peak the cut and paste queen oil , always looking at backstabbing me on kiwiblog .Anybody would think it was a conspiracy to undermine my credibility? Who cares ? Whats your real name ? Anyway don't give me static twisted one . <BR/><BR/>Studies from Canterbury and Otago Universities indicate that domestic violence is attributable to both genders, with both genders as guilty as each other , however I will agree a small percentage of fathers spoil it for the majority .<BR/><BR/>The de family court is a tool for the sick feminist cult that is affecting NZ at present and the corrupt judges give custody to mothers even though they unfit mothers . My children are ruined by the system !!!!!!!!!!<BR/><BR/>The bias court kills many innocent and alienated heartbroken paternal parents and elderly gran parents go to the grave unable to cope with the vicious treatment of their children . Try being a respondent in the family court . Its great fun as you can beaten to a pulp in Greymouth , Ashburton and Christchurch Central Police Stations !!! <BR/><BR/><BR/><BR/>We must stop the pernicious feminarcissist lie that mothers have the monopoly on loving their children, that mothers are the supreme parents. Society's ills<BR/> can be traced to the LACK of fathers living with their children. Think Lindsay Lohan. Think Britney Spears.dad4justicehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03399954680761271127noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7567930666988349313.post-78600250395649356042007-10-06T02:51:00.000-07:002007-10-06T02:51:00.000-07:00Thanks for your considered response.Now, to take m...Thanks for your considered response.<BR/><BR/>Now, to take matters further, do you agree that fathers are (statistically speaking) more likely to be abusive than mothers? I'm not talking about the general population here. I'm talking about the much smaller abusive population.<BR/><BR/>If you agree, then this might explain why the system is more likely to place children under the mother's custody.<BR/><BR/>But I understand your story is slightly different: mothers who intend to separate for whatever reason, and invent stories of abuse to ensure that they are granted sole custody.<BR/><BR/>By the way, I'm "Peak Oil Conspiracy" on Kiwiblog, and just want to say that we can actually have a sensible conversation. It's just that you have to be more respectful of my views and stop hauling abuse.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7567930666988349313.post-11348686432724416922007-10-06T00:53:00.000-07:002007-10-06T00:53:00.000-07:001. I believe children should not have to witness v...1. I believe children should not have to witness violence in any form including psychological abuse in any form .<BR/><BR/>2. The cause of the violence must be determined so it can be fixed .<BR/><BR/>3. 50/50 shared custody after separation only in circustances where absolutely no chance of violence to the children can be guaranteed by both parents .<BR/><BR/>4. In NO circustances should any children be put in a position where they are subjected to violence .<BR/><BR/>Kind regards d4jdad4justicehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03399954680761271127noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7567930666988349313.post-35278284055792300882007-10-05T22:47:00.000-07:002007-10-05T22:47:00.000-07:00D4J:I really want to understand your position. Yo...D4J:<BR/><BR/>I really want to understand your position. You support fathers' rights - but rights come with responsibility depending on the context.<BR/><BR/>So a couple of questions:<BR/><BR/>When a husband and wife have a violent relationship, do you think the children should continue to live under the same roof?<BR/><BR/>Does your answer change if the violence is inflicted on the children?<BR/><BR/>When a husband and wife separate, do you favour custody sharing?<BR/><BR/>But what if the custody sharing puts a child in contact with a parent who inflicted violence on him/her?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com