As a man who is about to hit the half century mark in years I thought I might consider what is the most important feature in my life?
No thought needed to answer this question.
My four children are the greatest asset in my life.
My millionaire mate said to me the other day that I was a lucky man with four beautiful children.He said he would swap all his money for a single child. That got me thinking about life and I guess I am a lucky bugger.My mid twenty twin sons are over six foot blond blue eyed chick magnets and my daughters are stunning teenagers, and all of them love me.
As a proud and happy father of four I enjoy strong bonds of love with each of my children. My kids love me heaps.Nothing can break those bonds of love.The sinister lying Family Court tried to destroy me(just like they did mum in)however 52 lawyers and 12 judges can't look me in the eye, as they all know they fucked me good and they were wrong in doing so.My book will exact revenge on these filthy low down scum.
Infact my sons get rather irrate about the cowardly smears continually thrown at me as a blogger. They both read kiwiblog and both want a wee chat with some vicious sly creep blogger who runs with the name big bruv.His day will come and I suppose that's why the internet is the ideal breeding ground for gutless keyboard fools unhappy in life. Lets have a crack at d4j that'll make you feel better.What gutless filth.
Anyway enough of the negative, this is a joyous day as I am a positive fit father of four.If you have children then remember you must earn their respect as they are your sacred primal priority. Nothing in the world has more value than a child's love.
Thursday, January 28, 2010
Tuesday, January 26, 2010
Monday, January 25, 2010
Dr Phil exposes lies from a vengeful and vindictive woman
An interview segment on a recent Dr Phil showed a woman admitting (reluctantly, by Dr Phil persists) lying about domestic violence allegations she had made which resulted in her husband being jailed for 10 months.
The segment is located at the following link:
http://current.com/items/91870358_a-woman-admits-lying-about-domestic-violence-to-jail-her-husband-for-10-months.htm
A woman on Dr. Phil show admits lying about domestic violence to jail her husband for 10 months.
The segment is located at the following link:
http://current.com/items/91870358_a-woman-admits-lying-about-domestic-violence-to-jail-her-husband-for-10-months.htm
A woman on Dr. Phil show admits lying about domestic violence to jail her husband for 10 months.
Friday, January 22, 2010
Anger Management
Anger Management
by Patrick Moreno
Often times, especially when a relationship ends, there is animosity on one or both parties involved. It is rare when both parties amicably split and maintain a healthy friendship. What we need to understand is that there is hope and only WE are responsible for our feelings. If you analyze this further, we maintain total control over the emotions that we have. Although there are times when we seem that we are out of control, ultimately WE are the ones that take charge and change the things that can be changed. According to the American Psychological Association it is natural to feel anger, especially when it comes to our children. The good news is that anger is something that we can take control of and learn to change our ways of thinking. It is not a disease and it does not have to hinder our lives.
One of the methods that we are able to control our anger is to listen twice as much as we speak. Many times in communication we find ourselves only hearing the parts of communication which we want to hear and do not receive the entire message. Take the time to listen first. Second, if you find yourself feeling anger, do not speak what you are thinking until you have an opportunity to analyze what your options are. Many times we speak from emotion and the message we send to the person which we are communicating is unclear and the issue(s) continue to exist.
Remember that WE need to make good decisions and changes in our lives for the better of our children. Children pick up your emotions from observational learning. There is hope for change when it comes to managing your emotions and it is something that will better your future; more importantly for your children. Instead of telling yourself, "oh, it's awful, it's terrible, everything's ruined," tell yourself, "it's frustrating, and it's understandable that I'm upset about it, but it's not the end of the world and getting angry is not going to fix it anyhow."
References
Unknown. (2009). Controlling Anger -- Before It Controls You [Anger Management]. Retrieved December 5, 2009, from American Psychological Association http://www.apa.org/topics/controlanger.html Web site: http://www.apa.org/topics/controlanger.html
About the author: Patrick Moreno is a advocate for a equal rights parenting group as well as PAAwareness organization. He is the father of a two year old son and studies family law in Cedar Falls Iowa. He enjoys helping other parents who have encountered the challenges of alienation as well as giving opportunities for education within the court system to those who are financially indigent. In his free time he enjoys spending time with his son.
by Patrick Moreno
Often times, especially when a relationship ends, there is animosity on one or both parties involved. It is rare when both parties amicably split and maintain a healthy friendship. What we need to understand is that there is hope and only WE are responsible for our feelings. If you analyze this further, we maintain total control over the emotions that we have. Although there are times when we seem that we are out of control, ultimately WE are the ones that take charge and change the things that can be changed. According to the American Psychological Association it is natural to feel anger, especially when it comes to our children. The good news is that anger is something that we can take control of and learn to change our ways of thinking. It is not a disease and it does not have to hinder our lives.
One of the methods that we are able to control our anger is to listen twice as much as we speak. Many times in communication we find ourselves only hearing the parts of communication which we want to hear and do not receive the entire message. Take the time to listen first. Second, if you find yourself feeling anger, do not speak what you are thinking until you have an opportunity to analyze what your options are. Many times we speak from emotion and the message we send to the person which we are communicating is unclear and the issue(s) continue to exist.
Remember that WE need to make good decisions and changes in our lives for the better of our children. Children pick up your emotions from observational learning. There is hope for change when it comes to managing your emotions and it is something that will better your future; more importantly for your children. Instead of telling yourself, "oh, it's awful, it's terrible, everything's ruined," tell yourself, "it's frustrating, and it's understandable that I'm upset about it, but it's not the end of the world and getting angry is not going to fix it anyhow."
References
Unknown. (2009). Controlling Anger -- Before It Controls You [Anger Management]. Retrieved December 5, 2009, from American Psychological Association http://www.apa.org/topics/controlanger.html Web site: http://www.apa.org/topics/controlanger.html
About the author: Patrick Moreno is a advocate for a equal rights parenting group as well as PAAwareness organization. He is the father of a two year old son and studies family law in Cedar Falls Iowa. He enjoys helping other parents who have encountered the challenges of alienation as well as giving opportunities for education within the court system to those who are financially indigent. In his free time he enjoys spending time with his son.
Thursday, January 21, 2010
Summary of Life
Summary of Life
GREAT TRUTHS THAT LITTLE CHILDREN HAVE LEARNED:
1) No matter how hard you try, you can't baptize cats..
2) When your Mum is mad at your Dad, don't let her brush your hair.
3) If your sister hits you, don't hit her back. They always catch the second person.
4) Never ask your 3-year old brother to hold a tomato.
5) You can't trust dogs to watch your food.
6) Don't sneeze when someone is cutting your hair.
7) Never hold a Dust-Buster and a cat at the same time.
8) You can't hide a piece of broccoli in a glass of milk.
9) Don't wear polka-dot underwear under white shorts.
10) The best place to be when you're sad is Grandpa's lap.
GREAT TRUTHS THAT ADULTS HAVE LEARNED:
1) Raising teenagers is like nailing jelly to a tree.
2) Wrinkles don't hurt.
3) Families are like fudge...mostly sweet, with a few nuts
4) Today's mighty oak is just yesterday's nut that held its ground..
5) Laughing is good exercise. It's like jogging on the inside.
6) Middle age is when you choose your cereal for the fiber, not the toy.
GREAT TRUTHS ABOUT GROWING OLD
1) Growing old is mandatory; growing up is optional..
2) Forget the health food. I need all the preservatives I can get.
3) When you fall down, you wonder what else you can do while you're down there.
4) You're getting old when you get the same sensation from a rocking chair that you once got from a roller coaster.
5) It's frustrating when you know all the answers but nobody bothers to ask you the questions.
6) Time may be a great healer, but it's a lousy beautician
7) Wisdom comes with age, but sometimes age comes alone.
THE FOUR STAGES OF LIFE:
1) You believe in Santa Claus.
2) You don't believe in Santa Claus.
3) You are Santa Claus.
4) You look like Santa Claus.
SUCCESS:
At age 4 success is . . . . not piddling in your pants.
At age 12 success is . . . having friends.
At age 17 success is . . having a driver's license.
At age 35 success is . . . .having money.
At age 50 success is . . . having money.
At age 70 success is . .. . having a drivers license.
At age 75 success is . . . having friends.
At age 80 success is . . . not piddling in your pants.
Pass this on to someone who could use a laugh.
Always remember to forget the troubles that pass your way;
BUT NEVER forget the blessings that come each day.
Have a wonderful day with many ! *smiles*
Take the time to live!!!
Life is too short.
Dance naked. woo-hoo!
GREAT TRUTHS THAT LITTLE CHILDREN HAVE LEARNED:
1) No matter how hard you try, you can't baptize cats..
2) When your Mum is mad at your Dad, don't let her brush your hair.
3) If your sister hits you, don't hit her back. They always catch the second person.
4) Never ask your 3-year old brother to hold a tomato.
5) You can't trust dogs to watch your food.
6) Don't sneeze when someone is cutting your hair.
7) Never hold a Dust-Buster and a cat at the same time.
8) You can't hide a piece of broccoli in a glass of milk.
9) Don't wear polka-dot underwear under white shorts.
10) The best place to be when you're sad is Grandpa's lap.
GREAT TRUTHS THAT ADULTS HAVE LEARNED:
1) Raising teenagers is like nailing jelly to a tree.
2) Wrinkles don't hurt.
3) Families are like fudge...mostly sweet, with a few nuts
4) Today's mighty oak is just yesterday's nut that held its ground..
5) Laughing is good exercise. It's like jogging on the inside.
6) Middle age is when you choose your cereal for the fiber, not the toy.
GREAT TRUTHS ABOUT GROWING OLD
1) Growing old is mandatory; growing up is optional..
2) Forget the health food. I need all the preservatives I can get.
3) When you fall down, you wonder what else you can do while you're down there.
4) You're getting old when you get the same sensation from a rocking chair that you once got from a roller coaster.
5) It's frustrating when you know all the answers but nobody bothers to ask you the questions.
6) Time may be a great healer, but it's a lousy beautician
7) Wisdom comes with age, but sometimes age comes alone.
THE FOUR STAGES OF LIFE:
1) You believe in Santa Claus.
2) You don't believe in Santa Claus.
3) You are Santa Claus.
4) You look like Santa Claus.
SUCCESS:
At age 4 success is . . . . not piddling in your pants.
At age 12 success is . . . having friends.
At age 17 success is . . having a driver's license.
At age 35 success is . . . .having money.
At age 50 success is . . . having money.
At age 70 success is . .. . having a drivers license.
At age 75 success is . . . having friends.
At age 80 success is . . . not piddling in your pants.
Pass this on to someone who could use a laugh.
Always remember to forget the troubles that pass your way;
BUT NEVER forget the blessings that come each day.
Have a wonderful day with many ! *smiles*
Take the time to live!!!
Life is too short.
Dance naked. woo-hoo!
Wednesday, January 20, 2010
Dr. Bone - About Parental Alienation
http://www.jmichaelbone.com/
About Dr. Bone - About Parental Alienation - Resources - Courses/Online Store - Contact - BLOG
This website is devoted to addressing the issues regarding Parental Alienation.
Parental Alienation and Family Court Cases involving Parental Alienation and Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS) are perhaps the most vexing and difficult that exist in Family Court. These cases require careful and painstaking preparation, analysis of voluminous documentation, preparation of experts and collateral witnesses. They can be difficult to demonstrate in court and include arduous steps that exceed the normal representation of a Family Law case without parental alienation. These cases exploit and wear down the system, and do so in the service of the alienation.
Do the following statements sound familiar? Your case has experienced numerous delays, multiple filings of motions and counter-motions for relatively small issues, yet without resolution. There have been outcomes that you have been told "should not have happened" perhaps even by your own lawyer. You have received Orders from the Court that are favorable to your position, yet are constantly being violated. Factual evidence is ignored, while hear-say and unsubstantiated allegations are accepted as truth without hesitation. Statements, evaluations and testimony by expert witnesses, mental health professionals and others seem "watered-down", incomplete or completely untrue.
The statements mentioned above represent only a few examples of how parental alienation can affect a Family Court case and I see many, many more each day. If you are interested in reading more on how I can help your specific situation and your family, visit the About Dr. Bone Section of this website.
"Never, never, never, never give up." - Winston Churchill
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J. Michael Bone, PhD.
Dr. Bone is an experienced consultant for cases involving Parental Alienation.
Dr. Bone provides both educational services and individual consultation for parents, attorneys and mental health professionals.
About Dr. Bone - About Parental Alienation - Resources - Courses/Online Store - Contact - BLOG
This website is devoted to addressing the issues regarding Parental Alienation.
Parental Alienation and Family Court Cases involving Parental Alienation and Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS) are perhaps the most vexing and difficult that exist in Family Court. These cases require careful and painstaking preparation, analysis of voluminous documentation, preparation of experts and collateral witnesses. They can be difficult to demonstrate in court and include arduous steps that exceed the normal representation of a Family Law case without parental alienation. These cases exploit and wear down the system, and do so in the service of the alienation.
Do the following statements sound familiar? Your case has experienced numerous delays, multiple filings of motions and counter-motions for relatively small issues, yet without resolution. There have been outcomes that you have been told "should not have happened" perhaps even by your own lawyer. You have received Orders from the Court that are favorable to your position, yet are constantly being violated. Factual evidence is ignored, while hear-say and unsubstantiated allegations are accepted as truth without hesitation. Statements, evaluations and testimony by expert witnesses, mental health professionals and others seem "watered-down", incomplete or completely untrue.
The statements mentioned above represent only a few examples of how parental alienation can affect a Family Court case and I see many, many more each day. If you are interested in reading more on how I can help your specific situation and your family, visit the About Dr. Bone Section of this website.
"Never, never, never, never give up." - Winston Churchill
--------------------------------
J. Michael Bone, PhD.
Dr. Bone is an experienced consultant for cases involving Parental Alienation.
Dr. Bone provides both educational services and individual consultation for parents, attorneys and mental health professionals.
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